Hello Doug,

about the first question you should be able to add a new menu item for the HTML sitemap using the standard Joomla menu. There is the view for JSitemap -> HTML sitemap. That will include a normal menu poiting to the sitemap.

The second question requires a look at your html page, no social icons are included in the sitemap tree, normally it looks like on the demo site: http://demo.storejextensions.org/jsitemap_professional/
If you get extra icons the problem could be due to some css used by the template and applying also to the sitemap tree.

John